If your objection to Starfire’s new treatment is that she’s being objectified, then say that. If your objection is that her writing was fucking terrible, then say that. If your objection is that she seems to be completely divorced from the character she used to be, then say that.
If your objection to Catwoman #1 is that the art was male-gazey, then say that. If your objection is that her actions were out of character, then say that. If your objection is that removing her past with Batman also removed their connection and the romantic and sexual tension in their relationship, then say that.
If your objection to Starfire or Catwoman is that “she’s acting like a slut” then you are the problem.
Win.